Sometimes what we say can be misinterpreted, so here are some phrases to avoid and alternative suggestions.
Phrase to avoid: what are your preferences?
May be interpreted as: perhaps I can ask for anything
A better form of words: we need to think about your priorities and then what we can do to fit with that
Phrase to avoid: what are your goals?
May be interpreted as: are there targets I’m supposed to meet?
A better form of words: what are things that are important for you to be able to do?
Phrase to avoid: the test results are negative
May be interpreted as: oh dear, the results are not good
A better form of words: there are no signs of any tumour in the tests we carried out
Phrase to avoid: the ceiling of treatment is ..
May be interpreted as: there’s a point at which I may not be entitled to treatment that might help
A better form of words: there are things we can do but some treatments don’t work or help when someone has these health problems
Phrase to avoid: we are going to withdraw treatment
May be interpreted as: I am (or my relative is) being abandoned by the clinical team
A better form of words: we are continuing care that may help but stopping treatments that are not helping and may cause distress or discomfort
Source: NHS Greater Glasgow and Clyde