Sexual activity
Sex/sexual activity can often be shown as only including penetrative vaginal and anal sex or oral sex. This is the case in most online pornography that young people will see. It will also often show sexual violence as sexual activity. Young people need to know that this is not what most people want sex to be like. They need help to have a much broader understanding of sexual activity that includes a wide range of touch, intimacy, mutual pleasure and consent. What people enjoy varies from person to person and requires communication between partners to know if both people want the same and are consenting. The Awkward Moments film clips for age 16+ show examples of how this can happen, even when it feels awkward.