Abuse - in relationships | Right Decisions

Please update your RDS mobile app to version 4.7.1

We are pleased to advise that deep linking capability, enabling users to directly download individual mobile toolkits, has now been released on the RDS mobile app. When you install the update, you will see that each toolkit has a small QR code icon the header area beside the search icon – see screenshot below. Clicking on this icon will open up a window with a full-size QR code and the alternative of a short URL for sharing with users. Instructions are provided.

You may need to actively install the update to install RDS app version 4.7.1 to see this improvement. Installing this update is also strongly recommended to get the full benefits of the new contingency arrangements – specifically, that if the RDS website should fail, you will still be able to download new mobile app toolkits.

To check your current RDS version, click on the three dots bottom right of the RDS app screen. This takes you to a “More” page where you will see the version number. To install latest updates:

On iPhones – go to the Apple store, click on your profile icon top right, scroll down to see the apps waiting to be updated and update the RDS app.

On Android phones – these can vary, but try going to the Google Play store, click on your profile icon top right, click on “Manage apps and device”, select and update the RDS app.

Please get in touch with ann.wales3@nhs.scot with any questions.

Most young people benefit from discussion and guidance about what makes an intimate relationship healthy and what behaviours show that the person respects and cares for you. It can be difficult to know what this looks like if you haven’t had many examples of this growing up.

It’s important that supporting adults help young people to be able to recognise signs that a partner/girlfriend/boyfriend’s behaviour is not respectful and caring and that it is controlling. This can happen in same sex relationships as well as male/female relationships.

These resources have been made to help you have these conversations:

Age 14-16

Red Flag/Green flag (3min 34s)

and

BBC Scotland The Social - 'Control' - The Story Of An Abusive Relationship (17min)